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What aren't you getting?

wetwarez2004Sep 5, 2006 9:00am
What aren't you getting?

Less sex or a lack there of can cause a spouse or significant other to seek out new relationships of a physical nature. But, in some cases it's mor than that. What then? It can be the type of sex or for lack of a better word "fetish" or sexual desire that your partner will not partake in.

So what are you missing?


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anitabJan 31, 2007 12:59am
i would never seek out new relationships... at least not another sexual relationship. i have been looking for new friends and companions. so, i guess i miss the friendship and affection... adoration, novelty... appreciation.

Sweet-SassyFeb 11, 2007 4:13pm
Well if a "spouse or significant other" so to speak isn't secure enough in the relationship to ask/tell/fantasy with the other then I would say that person has serious RELATIONSHIP problems and needs to see a Medical PROFESSIONAL. Because you should be so secure in your relationship. Lack of sex could be caused by Lack of interest.....Boring


whitewaterFeb 11, 2007 4:19pm
I don't have a lack of sex, but it does seem like i am the only one who initiates it. When I don't innitiate it then it doesn't happen. Also getting fantasies out of my partner is like pulling teeth.

Sweet-SassyFeb 11, 2007 9:18pm
Maybe it was her raising, some woman are raised that it "dirty." My country raising tried that on me but it didn't take as you can see. Turn the lights down low, you put on a blind fold so she doesn't feel like you are watching her (sometimes that makes ppl uncomfortable especially if they are self-conscious) and then tell her she can do ANYTHING her hearts desire.If that don't work pass dirty little notes especially if she's on the computer and can chat with you. Good Luck..


What aren't you getting?

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